2010年11月8日星期一
Looking For Daycares
Picking out a daycare for your child can sometimes be a challenging decision; the final matter you would like to do is place them inside a facility that's going to ultimately be harmful to their development and happiness. Unfortunately, it is not usually easy to distinguish a ""good"" facility from a poor one. Ahead of making a final verdict, there are a number of important bits of info you ought to know. A significant starting position when investigating a facility, especially an institution that cares for a huge number of little ones, is to ascertain if it can be licensed. If so, you know the key providers (frequently the directors) have completed a minimum amount of training in early childhood development, education and/or care, often in an alternative institution. It truly is fine to learn what instruction and go through the tutors and aides are necessary to possess before being hired, as these are the individuals who will regularly have the most hands on contact with the youngsters on a daily basis. These individuals should also be trained in first aid and CPR, and conversant in emergency procedures ought to a predicament arise. The facility ought to have set policies in spot for issues referring to the youngsters themselves, and these really should meet your expectations as nicely. A plan for emergency action really should a kid grow to be injured should be in place, and ready to be executed immediately. Together with policies relating to emergencies, they should have a standard way of discipline for the kids, as well as an operation for being followed when such disciplinary actions don't yield the desired results. These must mesh nicely with your disciplinary actions in your home to prevent confusion for the youngster. Most daycares, whether institutional or in-home, will have a set day-to-day schedule. It's good to notice that schedule, and ensure that your youngster will be in a position to abide by it. Youngsters should be allowed a lot of play time, as well as some structured activities to steer clear of the advent of boredom throughout the day. Naptime can frequently turn out to be a point of rivalry in a daycare situation; an excellent facility will have both a naptime for the kids who continue to take naps and a ""quiet time"" for kids who don't. Potty instruction should also be addressed with any likely caregiver, particularly if your youngster is just not yet out of diapers. Some preschool programs may well demand the young children for being toilet trained prior to enrolling them or will charge an additional fee for having to change diapers. It truly is very important if your child just isn't yet potty conditioned to make sure that whatever facility you choose is willing and able to aid in teaching your child to use the restroom. The facility itself ought to be clean and childproof, with items such as security latches on doors, gates on steps and electrical outlet covers. In the private house, places with fireplaces or timber stoves should be unavailable to youngsters. There need to be more than enough of room for children to spread out and play, and areas that permit exercise both inside and outside of doors. Age appropriate toys need to be accessible, as well as items such as cribs and highchairs for younger children. All this kind of equipment should meet current safety standards, and a great provider ought to have an inventory of said equipment and toys and be on a constant search for safety recalls. The most important issue to bear in mind is any great facility will encourage you to come in, meet the staff and observe classroom interaction prior to enrollment. Stick to your instincts on such visits; remember, no one knows your child like you do!
Got Relationship Tangles?: A Super Bible School Activity for Learning Ephesians 4:32
Have you ever noticed how tangled up relationships can get? And do you ever hear any of these comments among family and friends? – He said this. She said that. I don't like her? He makes me crazy! Relationships can be difficult at times, but as I get older, I am learning that a little kindness and love generously given here and there can untangle some of the worst situations. Our kids are not immune to the tangled webs of relationships around them either. So why not try this super Bible school activity that features a portion of Ephesians 4:32, which says: "Be kind and loving to each other…" to help your kids learn that God can use kindness and love to untangle the worst of relationships.Here's what you do:This activity will require some preparation. Before your children arrive to their class, cut a piece of yarn about 20 to 30 feet long per child. On one end of the string tie a nametag of a child in the class. On the other end, attach a small treat such as a lollipop. Attach the strings to walls or furniture, carefully weaving them in and out among each other. You are now ready to play the activity.When the children arrive, give them time to be curious about the tangled web of yarn. Now say the following: Do any of you have any relationships that feel like they're all tangled up? For example, maybe your sister won't speak to your brother. Or maybe whenever your aunt and uncle come over, they are always fighting. Or maybe there is someone at your school who isn't very nice to you. Do any of you have relationships like that? (Wait for kids to respond.) Well, this tangled yarn you see is a picture of how messed up our friendships can get. Is there a way to get things untangled? I think there is. And I think the answer can be found in a portion of Ephesians 4:32, which says: "Be kind and loving to each other…" Today we are going to practice being kind and loving with this Bible school activity called "Got Relationship Tangles?". I am going to give you a quick relationship challenge. I want you to pretend you are in the story. You must give me one way you could show kindness or love in the situation. Once you have participated in 2 different situations, you can go find your name attached to one of the pieces of yarn and then untangle your piece to find a treat on the other end. Eventually, I hope all your kind and loving responses will clear away the tangled mess in our room and you will be rewarded for your right choices!Here are 12 relationship challenges to give to your kids:
- Your friend asks you if (he/she) could look over your shoulder today at your math test. You say that wouldn't be right. Your friend gets mad at you. What do you do?Your grandma gets frustrated with you because you don't call her on the phone very often. What do you do?Your friend gets jealous because you want to have lunch with some other friends today. What do you do?Your family is low on money right now. You want a new bike and keep bugging your dad about it. Your dad gets mad at you for not understanding that there's not enough money for a bike. What do you do?You forgot to send a thank you note to your aunt for a gift. You're afraid she's mad at you. What do you do?Your friend just found out that (his/her) parents are getting a divorce. What do you do?Your mom promised to take you out for ice cram after she was done with her chores. But after she got done, she forgot about her promise. What do you do?Your baby brother is crying. Mom is busy doing laundry and you are busy with homework. What do you do?You just found out that your best friend told another friend of yours that (he/she) didn't like coming over to your house. What do you do?10. Your friend forgot to bring her lunch money again. She always asks you if she can borrow some money, but she never pays it back. What do you do?11. Your dad is always busy and doesn't spend very much time with you. What do you do?12.Your teacher praises you for working hard in English, but she says you need to work harder in math. This makes your upset. What do you do?
Tips for Great Parenting: Present a United Front for your Children
We all want to be great parents who help our kids grow into respectable, kind, self-sufficient adults. If only there were a guide to teach us how! I asked leading experts for some parenting advice, and they insist that it’s easier than many parents think. Here's the first step: present a united front in front of your children.It is essential that both parents, or whoever the caregivers are, are on the same page when dealing with their children about consequences, rules, and expectations. “Kids are manipulative and they’ll take advantage,” says Marlene McDermott, Marriage and Family Therapist at Serenity Counseling in Palmyra. For example, if one parent gives the child a month-long grounding, but the other parent cuts it to two weeks, the child recognizes that there is “wiggle room,” explains Marlene. “Clearly they’re not on the same page and the kid knows where the loophole is.”This rule is important always....from the tiniest problems to the largest issues. If you tell your three year old that he cannot have candy at the grocery store, but then your husband buys him a treat, he will learn at a very young age how to manipulate one or the other of you. You must establish the ground rules together so that he doesn't figure out how to "work" the system.While a disagreement over something as small as a piece of candy seems trivial, it's the pattern of showing a united front that ultimately matters. When he's 16 he sneaks his first beer, he can't think that one parent will let him off the hook while the other has made the rules against drinking clear.McDermott urges parents to agree on general rules of the house and make every member aware of them. If you don’t agree, work out differences behind closed doors, away from the child and then return with an answer. “Never let the kid see that and always present as a united front,” she says. Check out my blog at www.preschoolteach.blogspot.com Email me at terribakman@gmail.com
Financial for child education
In a fast moving and growing world where by an eye blink now we are at year 2010. We need to prepare for our child education where in 10 years time the education scheme will definitely going through changes and increase in requirements. One thing for sure, the education fee will definitely will increase. So, what are our plans to better prepare to overcome these changes and challenges?I will cover our future education scheme in a another topic in a near future. Now, I would like to discuss and share my thought on financial for education. In general, most parents already invested in insurance for their child education. Before we could commit of these insurance, investment and saving, we have to have a plan for our child education. I've list down the checklist below:1. What is your education plan for your child future? an engineer, a doctor, a pilot, an academician and entrepreneur2. You may want have a plan A and plan B, which worst case scenario, if plan A does work then you could easily switch to plan B almost immediately.3. Once you chose the education plan then you have to commit on financial commitment which my recommendation, put aside minimum of 10% to 20% of your gross salary for this plan.4. Diversify your financial commitments into 3 main categories; protection (insurance), investment and saving.5. Monitor your child education and ability which you may see his/her potential and adjust your financial commitment accordingly.Lastly, every single cent you spent on our child education will give you a peace at heart and you will never regret.
I Will Tell Relay: A Super Bible School Activity for Memorizing Isaiah 63:7
Can you list some kindnesses of the Lord? For example, He is kind enough to surround us with friends. He is kind enough to take care of all our needs. He was kind enough to create the beautiful world that we live in. Of course, those are just to name a few. There are so many kindnesses that we should proclaim to every one we meet. In fact, Isaiah 63:7 encourages us to do just that. It says, "I will tell of the kindnesses of the Lord." Pretty simple, but very profound. Here is a fun Bible school activity you will want to try with your kids to help them memorize this wonderful Bible verse. I call it "I Will Tell Relay".Here's what you do:For this Sunday school lesson bible game you will need 2 cans that are the #10 size. This is usually the can that holds 28 oz. Cut off both ends with a can opener and make sure that there are no sharp edges anywhere. You may even want to place tape around the edges. These cans will be passing from arm to arm, so safety is very important. Make sure the cans are clean and wrap each can with a different color of construction paper.Before playing the game, take time to introduce Isaiah 63:7. Ask the kids to help you make a list of the kindnesses of the Lord much in the same way I did at the beginning of this article. As they say a kindness, write it somewhere on each of the cans. Now, have the class say the Bible verse together several times so that they begin to memorize it and are ready to play the game. Finally, explain how the game is played and help them understand that as they are "shaking hands" and passing the "can of kindnesses" they are representing what it is like to share the Lord's kindnesses with everyone they meet.Here's how you play:Divide your class into 2 teams. Have them form 2 parallel lines facing each other about 3 to 4 feet apart. Have the first person in each line place the can on their arm. After talking about the verse, tell the children that on your word, "Go!", the first person in each line must pass the can to the person next to them by shaking hands through the can. Each person can only use one hand to pass the can. In other words, they cannot use their other hand to help them in any way. Once the can gets to the end of the line, the last person must pass the can to a teacher or helper and say Isaiah 63:7 to that teacher or helper. If he says it correctly, he takes the can back to the beginning of the line and steps away. There is now one less person in the line. The game proceeds as before. If a child does not say the verse correctly, he must go to the beginning of the line and start the can again. The first team to "get rid of" all their teammates is the winner of this super Bible school activity.
The Wordless Book Game: A Super Free Bible Activity for Learning the Wordless Book Colors
I love the Wordless Book! I teach it to all my kids. It is a simple and great tool for sharing the wonderful plan God has for all mankind through the five colors of black, red, white, green and yellow. Here is a great free Bible activity that your kids will really love to play while learning what each of the colors means. It takes some preparation, but it will be well worth the effort.Here's what you do:Prepare 48 cards about 2.5 x 2.5. On the front of each card you might print a picture of the Wordless Book. On the backs of 10 cards each, place one of these 4 colors: red, white, green and yellow. On top of each of the colors, write a point value of 100 to 400. On the backs of the eight remaining cards, place the black color with no point value. Place all 48 cards front side forward on a pocket chart or a table for your whole class to see. Next, get a basket in which you will put 2 each of the following cards: 2 black, 2 red, 2 white, 2 green, 2 yellow and 2 with all the 5 colors showing. Finally, have the list of prepared True or False questions found below. You are now ready to play the game.Divide your children into 2 teams and pick a child to be the scorekeeper. Tell the children they are going to learn about the Wordless Book and what each of the colors means. (If you have not done so already, take time to go over the Wordless Book colors one by one. For this game I will assume you know how to do that. If you are new to the Wordless Book, you can Google it to find out how to present it.)Have a child come up from the first team. Ask him to reach into the basket and pull out one of the color cards. You, the teacher, will proceed to ask the child one of the True or False questions that match the color he chose. If the child answers the true or false question correctly, he will then have the chance to pick up to 4 cards from the 48 Wordless Book cards. Each card has a point value of 100 to 400 points. There are also 8 black cards on the board. If the child picks a black card, then all the points they have accumulated on their turn go to the other team. The child does not have to pick all 4 cards during his turn. He can stop if he is afraid he might find a black card. Play until all 12 questions have been read. The team with the most points wins.Here are the Wordless Book Questions:1. Dark – Romans 13:12 says this: "We need to set aside the deeds of darkness in our lives." Deeds of darkness are sins. Sin is anything you think, say or do that displeases God.True or False: We need to get rid of the sin in our lives.2. Dark – Hebrews 12:1 says this: "Let us throw off everything that hinders us and the sin that so easily entangles us and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us." Do you ever feel tangled up in your sin? It seems one lie leads to another or one unkind word leads to a bad attitude. The next time you feel tangled up in your sin, remember to go to God right away and ask Him to forgive you and set you free.True or False: Sin doesn't tangle you up. It makes life smooth.3. Red – Hebrews 9:22 says this: "Without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness." It is very important that a Christian understands why Jesus died on the cross. This Bible verse gives us the answer. He died so that His perfect blood that He shed on the cross could forgive our sins. When we believe this we are forgiven.True or False: Jesus HAD to shed His blood in order for our sins to be forgiven.4. Red – Revelation 1:5-6 says this: "To Him who loved us and has freed us from our sin by His blood, be all the glory and the power forever and ever. Amen!" Isn't it amazing that Jesus loved us so much that He willingly endured the pain of the cross so that the blood He shed would forgive our sins? When we believe this, we are free from the deathly power of sin.True or False: Believing that Jesus shed His blood for the forgiveness of my sins does not free me from the power of sin.5. White – 1 John 1:9 says this: "If we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us of our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." Unrighteousness is another word for sin. After we choose to accept Jesus as our Lord and Savior, it is important to understand that we still might do wrong things. When we do these wrong things we should go to God in prayer and confess, or say we are truly sorry for what we did. We should also remember that when Jesus died on the cross, all our sins were washed away.True or False: When I do something wrong, I should confess it to God.6. White – A lot of people in this world think they can get rid of their sins just by being really, really good. This is absolutely not true. The only way you can get rid of the sin in your life is by believing on the Lord Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior who died on the cross to forgive your sins.True or False: I can get rid of my sins just by being really, really good.7. Green – After we choose to believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior, we should have a desire to grow in Him. Growing in God is as simple as GROW! (Spell out the letters). "G" stands for going to church. "R" stands for reading your Bible and praying. "O" stands for obeying God. And "W" stands for witnessing to others about Jesus.True or False: Growing in God is as simple as SHRINK (Spell out the letters).8. Green – The green color in the Wordless Book reminds us that we can grow in God. Once we become a Christian, we become a child of God. The Bible says we also become His friend. Growing in your friendship with God should be your #1 priority.True or False: Growing in God should be the last thing you ever think about.9. Yellow – The Wordless Book color of yellow should remind us of Heaven. The Bible says that in Heaven there is one street made out of pure gold. This will be exciting to see one day, but it can't compare to the amazing fact that Heaven is where God lives.True or False: The Bible says that in Heaven there is one street made out of jellybeans.10. Yellow – Earth is a wonderful place to live, but Heaven is a Christian's real home. Did you know that Heaven has rules? One of the biggest rules is this: Nothing bad or specifically sinful can ever enter into Heaven. Since "all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God," the only way into Heaven is by believing on the Lord Jesus Christ.True or False: Nothing bad or specifically sinful can ever enter into Heaven.11. Wordless Book Colors – The Wordless Book is an amazing tool that you can use to share God's wonderful plan with everyone you meet. There are no words in the Wordless Book, just 5 great colors. And once you know what each color means, the Wordless Book definitely has a lot to say.True or False: The Wordless Book has 5 pages of words.12. Wordless Book Colors – The Wordless Book has 5 beautiful colors that share the good news of God's wonderful plan for you and me. Dark is for the sin in our lives. Red is for God's blood. White is for how Jesus made our heart clean from sin. Green is for our growth in God. Yellow is for Heaven.True or False: Each color in the Wordless Book tells of God's wonderful plan for you and me.
Online Degrees And Scholarships: Supplementing Your Education
Online degrees are an excellent solution to the age-old problems of not having enough time or money to go to college.The time issue is often what put individuals off because they may have a full time job, a family or other commitments that need attending to before an individual can even think about doing something for his or herself.Hector Milla Editor of the "Free Scholarships And Grants" website -- http://www.FreeScholarshipsAndGrants.org/free-online-scholarships-money -- pointed out; "…However, it is easier to fit an education around a family with an online degree. The next question, of affordability, may actually provide the stumbling block here. Although an individual may still be working, a drop in income would probably not sustain an education as well. That is where scholarships for online degrees come in useful! There is funding for online degrees available out there. You just have to take the time to find it…"Scholarships and grants for individuals looking to complete an online degree or course, just the same as they would be available for individuals who are attending a campus based degree. He guidelines for searching for scholarships and grants are as follows:Federal grants - Federal grants are available to any individual wanting to pursue an education in the face of hardship, and those individuals whose income falls 200% below the poverty line can actually get a federal hardship grant without exception. In this way, the government are committed to making sure that anyone wanting an education can have access to one regardless of his or her social status or class. In this way, they are as committed to their goal as the online institutions that provide the classes. There are also other government approved grants for those unable to work, looking after a disabled dependent and in various other problematic situation that may otherwise prevent them from getting an education.College scholarships and grants - Various online schools also offer their own scholarships for individuals that deserve it. You can request information from the schools that you are thinking of applying to and actually apply for the scholarships when you send your application form in. Online schools are no different to regular schools in that they aim to take as many gifted individuals in as possible and designate so many scholarships for every intake as possible. However, if you think that you have a gift or will struggle to support yourself financially whilst completing your online degree then you should compare the various scholarships that you choice of colleges has to offer. If one will help you and another will not then it is a no-brainer when it comes to choosing the right one for you!"…In order to locate various scholarships, you have to really do your research. You can look in student magazines, on websites, call the careers advisor at every school that you are thinking of applying to... There are many people that you can contact if you so wish. However, you have to put the effort in to locate them. When you have enough information then you can apply for various grants and scholarships. As you would be applying for online courses and degrees then you would have to substantiate your arguments as to why you would be the best person to award a scholarship to if going for private funding or federal funding. However, you can do nothing but try, and if you do not ask then you do not get…" added H. Milla.Further information about trusted and reputable sources for government grants by visiting; http://www.FreeScholarshipsAndGrants.org/free-online-scholarships-money
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